My 5 Best Tips to Help you Move From Feeling Alone, Useless and Inadequate to Feeling like a Champion Thoroughbred After Divorce

Do you find yourself feeling like you are all by yourself, like no one else is experiencing what you’re going through, after  divorce? What about feeling like you’re just wasting your time, hopelessly going around the same mountain, over and over again. Seem like you’re always putting yourself, seeing yourself different? Well don’t despair. Follow these 5 great tips that will inspire, motive and stimulate the winning champion within you. With these tips in your pocket, you can move forward to live a better life after divorce!  Hurry, let’s get started!
 Tip #1.   For right now, I want you to be selfish. Brag on yourself to pump yourself up! No, I don’t mean in a negative way but, in a positive way by putting yourself first. Stop the madness and do something different that you probably have not done before. I know this may feel strange. Look in the mirror and tell yourself something great about yourself. Say statements like: 1) I am beautiful, sexy and attractive.  2) I have much to offer any person who is deserving of this!   3) I have a bright future ahead of me because I am talented, creative and focused. 4) I love myself deeply first, therefore I am loveable.

 Tip #2.   You know that movie you wanted to see but, kept saying you don’t have the time, well go see it. Well, it’s pass time you got off the sideline and did something. Stop procrastinating! Oh, here’s a good one, “I don’t have anyone to go with me.” Take yourself to the movie for yourself, by yourself.  Buy your own popcorn. Buy your own nacho cheese, candy bar and soda pop. Know that it’s all about you and your joy.

 Tip #3. I do not know about you but, when I get my hair and nails done, I feel like a million bucks. Go and do that for yourself. Send the children to auntie, grandma or perhaps a trusted friend for the day. Grab or purchase a good book, curl-up on the couch and engross yourself. Meanwhile on the couch, turn on a good movie. You know that bubble bath set that you got for Christmas and never used, now is a great time to use it. After divorce is an excellent time to indulge yourself!

 Tip #4. Now, go pull out a notebook and create a gratitude journal. This is one of the most fundamental tool used to recognize all the good you already have in your life. Now you may be looking at your life as if the “glass is half empty.” The Gratitude Journal will help you see your glass from another perspective, “full.” When you look back over your journal in a couple of months, you will be amazed by the amount of things you are grateful for.

 Tip #5. One of the best ways to get your mind off your problem after divorce is to help someone else. Helping someone else who has the same issues as you, does something to you. It allows you to step back and see that yours may not be as bad as you think. It also helps you to see that you are not the only one experiencing this issue. Remember, as you help someone else, it will surely come back to you, as Karma dictates. That motivates and inspires me to do more to help others because I know it will always bring good things back to me.

 These are just a few quick tips to help you move from feeling alone, useless and inadequate to feeling more fulfilled like a champion after divorce.



Emma S. Grant

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Empower, Inspire and Motivate: Empower Where You're Planted

Empower, Inspire and Motivate: Empower Where You're Planted: Good Day Everyone, Emma Here If this is your first time reading my blog, congratulations on your decision to read my blog.  And, if you&...

Empower Where You're Planted

                                Empower Where You're Planted

Good Day Everyone, Emma Here

If this is your first time reading my blog, congratulations on your decision to read my blog with the titlr, Empower Where You're Planted.  And, if you've been a faithful follower, kudos to you. But seriously,  I try to provide content that will inspire, motivate and elevate your spirits. I believe, when this happens, you can truly experience the abundant life that's already been setup for you! I mean abundance of  love, joy, peace, health and finances. This coupled with and attitude of gratitude, you will become unstoppable.

I want to give you pat on the back. Many of us very seldom receive any recognition. So today, I'm be the first to say to you how grateful I'm to have you visit my Empower Network Blog. You all deserve the accolades, and the recognition.  So on behalf of all the Dream Team and myself,  I want to personally thank of you for seeking out a positive note in this cyber world!

 As I think about who my audience may be, I can imaging seeing the faces of many people. Of course, if you leave a comment, perhaps I will be able to see your faces. Nonetheless, that is not important. However, if I was able to see them, I know your faces reveal a lot of your thoughts, and your feelings. Some are feelings of despair; some have lack of confidence; some with fatigue/low energy; some reveal optimism and some pessimism. Some of the faces I may know or may not know. Whether you’ve been here surfing in search of inspiration on a regular basis or this is your first search, you were brought to this site for a reason. It serves a purpose. Nothing happens by chance. It's all divinely orchestrated, I believe. That purpose is, not only to inspire, elevate, and make a difference but, to be a person of excellence in the lives of your family and the people around you.

 I am here today because I want to share a word or two that will inspire, empower and encourage you to maintain that purpose.    I want you to remember this quote by  Aristotle, that comes to mind and that is: “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit.”

I read somewhere that it takes 21 days to form a habit.  So it’s possible. I believe that life’s experiences help develop and solidify those habits. That is, the good, the bad and the ugly!!

As I matriculated through life (family, career) opportunities presented themselves and I  was able to reinvent myself, because as you know,nothing ever stays the same. Situation may come that dampen your spirits but, you must continue being a person of excellence. In due season, if you faint not, other opportunities will present themselves to elevate and rejuvenate your passion or spirit. Believe me, it will. Make a decision to stay focus on what's important and not get distracted by the adverse events that life sometimes bring. I emphasize to you today, never allow anyone or anything to rob you of your joy and passion. Make a decision right now, from this day forward!! You, may say, Emma what’s your point? My point is to: “Keep the joy and passion in what ever you do.

 Many of you who are reading my blog are from all over the world. I see the stats. That tells me I can make a difference in a big way. With the gift, opportunities and platform that I have, I will make a difference by giving to you "golden nuggets." I blog, not only to give you words of wisdom but, to give you opportunities to have better health,  a better mind and better finances. That being said, Empower Network provided me this platform to spread this good news. Click on the link on this page and be a part of this movement. This opportunity is not just for experienced network marketer but for the novice or the want-a-be's . Check it out now!!  Blog Your Way to Financial Freedom "Click Here"

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Let Your Light so shine, so others will see the Godliness or Goodness In you. Not only in you but, in what you do. Remember, you and only you are responsible for your happiness, your joy. I‘ll say it again as Aristotle said:  We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit.

I will leave you with another paraphrased quote by Zig Ziglar: Your attitude determines your Altitude…

What you do and how you act right now determines your level of success. So, don’t stop being positive, don’t stop being upbeat, don’t stop having a joyful attitude. Continue practicing compassion.  Empower where you’re planted.

Emma S. Grant

Know that on my blog, you are always welcome to share a comments. Get a little and give a little. You never know who's life you may impact. Commenting is giving. What you give will always come back to you. Leave your comments!!!

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Perseverance With Empower Network .....Comes Success

                                      
   

               

           EMPOWER NETWORK your way to Success!!

It's Emma,  and the word for today is "Perseverance with Empower Network...Comes Success."  I'm here today with more of what you need to stay pumped up for life's journey!!  Let me start by saying "it takes perseverance and a whole lot of other stuff to be successful on this journey called life. Being successful requires perseverance, goal setting, focus, faith and work. I am up to the challenge. I hope you are, or at least by the time you read this blog. I am ready to put forth the work and the dedication evolved in achieving my goals because, anything worth having is worth the challenge.

• According to dictionary.com, perseverance is steady persistence in a course of action, a purpose, a state, etc., especially in spite of difficulties, obstacles, or discouragement. To me this says stay the course despite the difficulties, turbulences or obstacles that I may encounter. I have a purpose in mind and that is to be successful in my business as a Take Shape for Life Health Coach, a Motivational Speaker, an Author and as a Blogger with Empower Network.  My desire is to be coachable and receive the leadership of this new company, Empower Network. Click on the button in this blog, view the video and you, like me can achieve success. I am learning the business, as I go. I am moving in the direction that I want to go. I am persevering!! I know perseverence with Empower Network....Comes Success.

• Goal setting is an art, as said by Darren Hardy of Success Magazine. I couldn't have agreed more. It is much more than a New Years resolution.  I am learning better the process of setting goals. One of the things I've learned from the training and leadership from Take Shape for Life is call Structural Tension. You must assess where you current are or your current reality. Take an inventory of where you are and write it down. Then write down where you want to be, or your goal.   Now, first of all, this allows you to see the big picture or better yet the truth. Many times we fool ourselves into thinking we are one place, and in actuality we are another. I am a visual learner and this has help me to assimilate a lot better. Now, in order to get from current reality to your goal, what will be the steps involved. List them. First, I will need to do A, B, C and D. List the steps  realistically. I have blogged daily on my Empower Network blog, providing great content for traffic to come to my site. They see what I have to offer, and then they buy. That was a great example of what happens when we set goals, we achieve them!!/

• Focus defined by dictionary.com is a central point, as of attraction, attention, or activity. What we focus on, we bring about. I like to focus on positive outcomes because that is what I want to bring about. Focusing and meditating on success several times a day is an excellent way to bring it about. Preferably in the morning upon awaking and at night just before going to sleep.  Many of the great thinkers of yesterday and today both agree as the book says, As a Man Thinketh, So is He. As I embark on this entrepreneurial journey, I meditate and focus often on my success with Network Marketing.  We can both become successful together. Click here and join the Empower Network Team to see what it can do for you. 

• Faith, faith, faith and more faith. The substance of things hoped for and the evidence of thing unseen, is one of the things the bible says  about faith. I know that I will be successful and achieve financial freedom, because of my undying faith. I am blogging and it allows me to give a part of me to you as a point of light. At least, that's what I hope it will be for you.

As I close this blog on 8/24 /2013, and as I work to achieve success, I hope it makes a difference in your life and challenge you to never give up on pursuing your goals to become successful. I will continue to have perseverance with Empower Network.....Success will come!!


I invite to leave you comment.  Would love to hear from you!! Remember to give a little and get a lolt.

Emma S. Grant
The Secret is Out Check it out for your self. Your future depends on it!!
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Empower Network....Empowering Youself for Life

Most people know that you can influence others through your works, your words and your demeanor. But if you are demonstrating your works, expressing your words and revealing your demeanor in a positive way, you then are empowering them. I know empowerment denote positivity. It is just not enough to influence, which can be negative, we should always strive to empower each other. As we empower others, it will never return to us void. What we put out, we will get back. I call that the boomerang effect.  Wouldn't you want good coming back to you. I don't know about you, but I would. I work hard at disbursing positive nuggets to family, friends, co-workers, colleagues, and strangers (perhaps you)!!  With Blogging through Empower Network, I able to spread many positive nuggets to everyone in the world. That is so fantastic!! Check out my site on Empower Network at: http://www.empowernetwork.com/almostasecret.php?id=emmasgrant  

When on this site, click and watch video. Empower Network can benefit all types of marketers, affiliate marketers, network marketers, newbie internet marketers and veteran marketer. Which one are you??  Many have doubled or even tripled their income. Empower Network could work into your life and grow your business as it 's doing for me.



Another thing that came across my mind today as I worked on growing my business. When we make a decision to work intensively to better our conditions (our business, our lives or our families) we often times encounter people who are not in alignment with our goals and aspirations. When we have a desire to move to the next level, many times we are not always ready to endure the stretching and the uncomfortable encounters  that may accompany this advancement.  However, if we persevere, and keep our eyes on where we want to be, instead of where were are now, we will achieve our goal. Stop focusing on where you are and apply more focus on where you want to be. Believe you can and guess what? You will! Your thoughts drive your future reality.

Somewhere in the bible it says, pray without works is dead. I work on several things and wear my hats.  I learned early how multi-task, like many of you. I believe if I continue to persevere, I will acquire all the abundance that God has for me. For that reason, working on developing a better me from the inside-out, will better assist me in achieving my goals. I work on personal development daily. One of the thought leaders, Jim Rohn says in order for things to change, you have to change.  When I decided to be a better me, I discovered my purpose. My businesses as a Health Coach for Take Shape for Life: www.emmasgrant.tsfl.com and an author of my first book, "Divorced, Now What?: www.emmasgrant.com  are all product of living my purpose.  Empower Network is no different. I am here to motivate, empower and inspire people to live a more abundant life.   More abundance of peace, more abundance of joy,  more focus, more abundance of health, more abundance in your finances and more abundance of success. I am blogging to share with others the abundance in my life and perhaps I can be an example to you. You too can join this Network and express your gifts to the world. I welcome your comments.  Until next time!!


Emma S. Grant

http://www.empowernetwork.com/almostasecret.php?id=emmasgrant

Success with Empower Network

Hey Everyone!!
I just attended a fantastic webinar presented by one of the leaders with Empower Network. It was fantastic. She shared so much great information on how to grow your business on Face Book. This is my first week with Empower Network and it has been phenomenal!! I attended lots of educational training that truly help you leverage your business. The Face Book Marketing Training just one of them. Empower Network provides a means of selling digital training so you can obtain passive income from marketing your own business or being an affiliate with them. Click right now on the link and watch the Video so you too can begin to grow your business like I did.Success with Empower Network.....

Right now I am pumped up an committed. I am in the business of empowering, motivating and inspiring people to live a life of abundance. You can be as excited as I am about your life. I know my purpose as stated above. Sharing and providing opportunities to people that will change their lives for the better is what I'm all about. Perhaps you've always had all the luxuries that life has to offer, perhaps not. Now it really doesn't matter. All that matters is that you want to elevate yourself now, grow your business or provide a better way of living for yourself and your family. Well, like I said, I've have through Devine connection, come in contact with a group of people who are truly committed to helping you get to the next level of abundance. Empower Network provide the tools, training and leadership for anyone to accomplish their goals. They are full of gratitude. I say to God be the glory for all the wonderful things He has done in my life.  He is in the blessing business. Because of my faith, perseverance, and work ethic, I will achieve every goal I put for in the universe. I Believe that you can and guess what? You will also. I am going to press forward and blog myself to financial freedom. I invite you to join me. Go ahead and click on the video link to see for yourself. Do like me, invest in your future right now. Empower network, the Dream Team and grow your own money tree!!

Emma S. Grant
Oh, I almost forgot. Check out my other businesses.
Health Coach with Take Shape for Life... www.emmasgrant.tsfl.com
My Book, "Divorced, Now What? Loaded with tip and wisdom to move you from sadness and distraught to having more joy, peace and being more focuses..  www.emmasgrant.com