When Is It Appropriate To Date After Divorce? (Part 1)

                            Your Emotions 

                           



                                                                                                                                                

Dating after divorce is a question most divorcees ask and, the answer will vary based on who’s giving the answer. If you look around at what is happening in the world today, divorce has become such a common event that the answer to this question is a must. I believe the answer to this question depends on many factors such as your emotional state, whether you have children, the age of the children, your religious beliefs, your socio-economic situation or timing. Many people struggle trying to figure this out. It is indeed an individual thing. I’m going to tell you what my thoughts are, and perhaps what others think as well. This is part 1, of this series.

Let’s talk about the emotional state of the individual. I believe some questions has to be answered in terms of whether the person have worked through feelings of sadness, distraught, abandonment and sadness that may occur after divorce. Know that many divorcees have these feelings. Take steps to empower yourself and eliminate these mindsets.

First, acknowledging your feelings or bringing them to the surface is a step in the right direction. Remind yourself every day that you deserve happiness. Visualize yourself as a creative, smart and beautiful individual. Tell yourself you are capable of overcoming any physical or emotion obstacles that comes your way. Connect with your Higher Self. Connect with friends or family who will support and elevate you. As you work through these feelings, identifying and finding a more balanced sense of self, joy and peace will come to you.

 This process may take some time for some people and for others, it may be more brisk. There is no rush!  Know that if these are not resolved, you will find yourself attracting someone who will bring about these same feelings over and over again. Work at resolving these emotions and strengthening your inner self and achieving a balance in your emotions before dating. If you are emotionally stable, chances are you will attract someone who is stable as well. Stay tuned for Part 2 to know when it is appropriate to date after divorce.


                                          
Emma S. Grant
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